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Today, I have a message for someone who when I tune into their energy, I feel like they’re drowning.
Drowning In Noise From The Outside World
And it has to do with noise, there’s a lot of noise in their mind and in their energy. And it creates that drowning feeling because it’s become really difficult to feel. What you want. To feel what? Your thoughts and feelings are about a situation. It seems to be particularly critical right now because I think you’re trying to make an important decision and. Your decision right now is filled with other people, with what other people want. Or it’s filled with.
What you think you should do? Or what society would think it’s a good idea, you know? Or what’s the logical thing to do, which is good to have all of these things as points of information? You know, because we live in a society, so it’s good to follow the the rules of society where usually put calls on before you go outside your door. That kind of thing. And so this is really good. But it’s important to also have the point of information about you.
That is just you pure, beautiful, who you are and what you think and how you feel. And then you can decide how to reconcile. That part of you would, with all the other things that are drowning you right now, so there’s a disproportion. In all these sources of information, one is too loud. It’s like there’s a TV on really loud and then you’re trying to think or listen to the radio and then you can’t hear the other source of information.
Why Is This Important Now?
It’s been like that for a long time, I feel, but it’s just it’s more critical right now just because of that decision that you’re trying to make. So what can you do, and that’s so that the first part is the configuration of the problem. Now let’s let’s see what the intuitive message is. It’s interesting because in neurology. It’s pretty clear that you’re reluctant to distance yourself. From those outside sources. And usually that means that you want external validation.
That’s the thing I see most frequently with this configuration, but it’s not really the problem here. You’re afraid of missing out on something, you’re afraid? Oh, I think you’re a bit of a perfectionist. You’re afraid of missing some important information. So you’re paying a lot of attention to the information that’s outside. But. You’re missing out on the information that’s inside. And I don’t think that you’re realizing this, I think that you’ve internalized. This information that’s on the outside so well that it sounds like it’s what you think.
The Curse Of Being A Perfectionist
Now, there’s a there’s a there’s a hitch is always a hitch, because we we always do things for a reason. So your mind is thinking. If I start to listen to myself. All those people around me that have been, you know, kind of saying what they want and I’ve been doing that right. That might stop or that might slow down or might not always do what they want. They tend to be unhappy or upset with me.
And this is the hitch. This is why you have been quieting what you want and you’ve been paying a lot of attention to what other people want, is to avoid that very specific thing. Which is understandable, nobody likes conflict, especially because you do this for people that you love or people that are close, you know, in your inner circle, you don’t have an issue with, like listening to random strangers or things like that. It’s very specific to the people around you.
But the message does trying to make its way to you is that nobody benefits in the big picture when you don’t add your thoughts and feelings to your decision, because that decision will always be like a really bad compromise where nobody really wins. And the reason nobody wins is because we’re all connected, like we’re like a giant beehive, and I use this analogy a lot. We’re like bee hive where we’re forgotten that we’re bees. So we don’t always notice or realize that we’re connected, but we are it influences us.
When Making A Bad Compromise Doesn’t Help Anyone
So when you make a decision and you quiet your voice too much and you listen too much to other people, they might get what they want. But this is a very short lived benefit for them. And then the debt is incurred a debt of energy, because even if they don’t know it consciously, there’s a part of them in their in their energy where we’re connected, which is how I’m reading your energy. Right. So I can do this because I have a lot of experience doing this.
But even though they can’t do it consciously and thus it’s something that is pervasive, that we are kind of soaking in this bath of energy. Right. And it’s connecting information. So there’s a part of them that knows that they owe you a debt that is really uncomfortable. And it’s funny because you might see you might be seeing something, this weird pattern, where you doing you’re doing things to, you know, please them and they’re angry. They don’t appreciate it.
When Caving In Creates An Energy Debt
And the reason that they’re doing that is because a debt was incurred, this was not a negotiation where they said what they want, you said what you want, and then you decide on something that is, you know, you’re both like, OK, cool, this is a good compromise. I compromise. You compromise. We have something that works for both of us. This is something where you said, OK, we’re going to do what you want, and that came with a heavy burden of of guilt and that that they can never repay because it’s unconscious, it’s not on the table.
You didn’t negotiate this. Now, there’s nothing wrong with what they’re doing. There’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing. But do you see how the big picture nobody can ultimately win because they don’t want this, that it makes them upset and angry and frustrated, but they can’t really pinpoint why? They just react like like this, you know, when you’re doing the right thing, which are the thing that you feel is right, which is what you think they want.
So the intuitive message is. You know how in an airplane, they always say if the oxygen masks come down and you’re with a child, put your mask on first and then you can put the one on the chest. It’s because if you pass out, you know, you can’t help the child and the child is less likely, you know, to be able to reach out and do this for them. So this is kind of an airplane situation like that where when you’re trying to come up with the best decision, you have to negotiate for you.
Always Know What YOU Want First
So you have to put on your own mask and you have to know what that is. What is it that you want? Now, it doesn’t mean that you’re going to become a terrible jerk or a narcissist or and this is part of the fear as well. I feel that you’re afraid that if you pay attention, even just pay attention to what you want, all of a sudden you’re going to become like the worst person that you can imagine, you know, a person who is self centered and all that and you’re not at risk.
You are so far from this that they would take a very long journey for you to make it there. But we’d like you to come in the middle, you know, where you’re not invisible, your needs are visible, you’re in there, but you’re not in the other extreme either, you’re somewhere in the middle, someplace healthy. And as you do that, you come into a negotiation with what are we going to decide here?
What am I going to decide that’s best for my environment and the people around me? You start by asking yourself, what is it that I want you to start there? Even though it’s hard and even though it scares you and I would like to remind you that you don’t have to do this right, you have to do anything with this information. It’s just information, neutral. It’s information that’s trying to come in and say, this is what you want, and then you have very easy access to what they want.
And from there, you can start negotiating these two things so that they do work. And the final decision will be, I love this, because this is something that can change so many decisions, not just this one, but just so many afterwards where you’re going to be consistently making better decisions, not just for you, but for them, too, because that frustration, irritation that they have because of the debt will go away. They will feel like.
You have both gotten something that works for you. And you will not become a jerk, I promise.
Is This Message For You?
As a professional intuitive, I’m always tuned into the intuition channel, it’s on my stream and it’s really handy because when somebody asks me a question, I can just go get the answer there. Well, once in a while, I’ll get a message, an intuitive insight for somebody. And I don’t know who that is. And this is why I need your help!
I have to deliver this to the right recipient. So maybe it’s for you. Maybe it’s for somebody you know, or maybe it’s for a group of people who have a shared problem in common and could really use listening to this message that I received today. So either way, let me know!
Elise Lebeau, M.Sc. | The Left Brain Intuitive
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